Should i kiss him or not.........?

I have a boyfriend im 13 and his 14 we have been going out 2 weeks now and we really love each other he has pecked me on the lips and cheek but the other day he tried to kiss me and put his kiss tounge in my mouth but i backed away coz im scared coz i have never kissed with tounge and im scared ill mess up please help i really really want to kiss him wit tounge but i don’t no how. and if u haven’t read my last first post i haven’t told him bout my 18 year old brother read that post peolpe please i dont no wat to do help ~Danielle~

Answer #1

dont worry justgo a long with what he’s doing and if you do what he;s doing hemight reallly like it! b/c wheni kiss my b/fi try to kiss him like he kisses me and for some reason he likes it!…lol…so just try to go along with his kiss and follow him!

Answer #2

dont worry about the kiss. the first time i tried to kiss my boyfriend with tounge i opened my mouth to wide and looked like a dummy and he laughed at me! but no ive done it so much we look back and laugh about it together. so just go for it. hope i helped some.

Answer #3

If you really want to kiss him, just go for it! If you really do think you love eachother and feel comfortable enough, he shouldn’t care even if you are bad. Kissing is an aquired thing, the more you do it, the more you feel comfortable with it and get better at it, there’s not much to it! It’s a lot easier when you’re a girl too, so until you feel more comfortable with it just sort of follow his lead, all you really have to remember is to have decent breath, go easy on the tounge, and try to keep a nice paced rhythm.

Good luck!

P.S I’m really sorry about your brother. I can see how that would make you uncomfortable with other boys and I really hope that works out. All i can say is you NEED to get someone else involved (your parents or the police, or even a close friend) who can help you get away from him and not have that happen to you anymore.

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