Should I keep calling him?

He told me he loved me and he asked for my hand im marriage… But he stoped calling. I’ve left him around 16 voice mails… And he hasnt called for 2 days. Should I keep callin or stop? Whats going on with him? Please I need help!

Answer #1

plzzz give it a rest the more you keep calling the more your going to irritate him and like the old saying is if you truely love him let him go if he comes back I guesse its up to you if you let him back think every time he gets a bug up his but or decides he needs his space every time well this is what you can expect the heart ache and greif of wondering whats wrong ,,, be strong girlfreind and give him all the space he needs like for ever he,s not a man areal man dont pull chit like this think im better than this and do I deserve such bs like this no ‘’’ way/// im 39 and been in your situation believe me and when a few months go bye and you stop phone stalking him eventually the little creeps try popping in on you again ,,, good chance … just give him some time but dont go waiting for too long who nos maybe it will work out but dont bother him no more ,,,

Answer #2

mmmk he finally called!!! he just said that he was really really drunk and he couldnt function rite so he wanted to wait till he could talk rite

Answer #3

Yeah stop calling him. Wait for him to call. Maybe he has things to think about. Marriage is a huge deal. My boyfriend, when he has a lot to think about, he falls off the face of the earth for a couple days. Its really fustrating but I give him his space. He does it so that he can get his thoughts together without having any influences or distractons.

Answer #4

im waitin for him to get on myspace… mabe he did lose it. or mabe his stupid @$$ roomate stole it or hid it from him or somethin… I duno… im gunna call his roomate if he doesnt call me by tomarrow. im just scared that he is ignorin me… mabe im just over reacting… I duno.

Answer #5

if he asked for your hand in marriage there must be something wrong… maybe he lost his phone or it broke. or maybe the battery is dead and he hasn’t had a chance to charge it…just dont freak out and wait a little. maybe ask around about him, like to one of his friends, or his parents or simblings. or go to his place and knock on the door lol.

Answer #6

kk ill stop callin and buggin him… I just let him go

Answer #7

And being the naive 13 yr old that you are, you believed him…!

Answer #8

Just wait for him to call. I had that problem with my boyfriend and it was because he had broke his phone and didn’t have my number written down. If it gets to be too long and you are worried you can call one of his friends and see if he is okay. if you think he is just trying to avoid you, then you should wait on him.

Answer #9

yeah you should stop calling him so much wait for him to call you, if he doesn’t then that means he is not that serious about you. And just because he asked for your hand in marriage that doesnt mean a whole lot, because as a rule you should never go by what a guy says just by his actions alone and If he loves you enough to marry you then he should love you enough to call you back. but anyways his phone COULD be broke or maybe not.

Answer #10

Ok, first of all you are not even old enough to start and consider marriage, worry about school,. and how you can better yourself, and much less about anyone else, I dont think he should be your main priority, and ALSO… stop calling him, after about the first 2 or 3 calls he should get the idea, and if he said he loved you, im sorry but you are young and vunerable, and could maybe believe anything, so there is a chance, he is not even serious, anyhow.. goodluck. :]

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