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Should I just forget about him?

The guy I like is, well, a couple years older, and my family kinda has a problem with that. I never see him, because we have no classes together at school, and are both usually busy after school. He keeps avoiding me for like a week at a time out of nowhere, because he thinks I’m mad at him, which is what actually gets me kinda mad. He the jealous type “a lot” as he says..and I don’t know if I can put up with another majorly jealous guy, because well I one of those girls that is “one of the guys” and have so many guy friends. And, I have just been really doubting if I really like him as much as I did before. Should I just forget about him?

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Answer #1

do what you think is right that is one where honestly prob no one van help you with becasue we cant tell you your feelings but if you like himthen go for it what else could it hurt

Answer #2

I think you should forget him.I had this boyfriend that was 4 years older than me.He was really jealous and would ignore me a lot and I just couldnt take it anymore.I dont regret it for a second I think I made an excellent decision bc now I have a boyfriend that im in love with.when you close a door the other opens.but really if you like him a lot and are having second thaoughts about giving him up then stay with him for a while and tell him how you feel if it doesnt get better then you should let him go.

Answer #3

I think you should move on. When I was about 16, I had this boyfriend who was older and he was very jealous as well. He also avoided me for like 3 days at a time. I just shrugged it off and acted like nothing was wrong…but the truth is, he was a VERY insecure person who would take those three days and go have sex with random girls to reassure his self that He was a cool person. I don’t mean to say that your boyfriend is going off doing the same thing, but I’d just be careful with jealous guys because they tend to be shady.

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