Should I have this baby?

I think you should start thinking of contraception. It’s a decision you are going to have to make. However my opinion is stop having children and take care of the two you have, some people can not have any atal. You have two precious lives and I think your thoughts should be with those. Hope you make the right decision for you all.

I’m very sorry to hear about your first two children. And it’s hard to answer questions like these…but I’m not going to judge you…everyone does things in their lives they’re not proud of. And if they gave people the chance to comment on them, I’m sure they wouldn’t get any good feed back. But you’re asking for advice…so I’ll give you my advice. In my opinion, I think you should consider adoption. It’s sad because then your first two may never know their little brother or sister. But there is someone out there who wants that baby, and they might not be able to have babies…so it would bless their lives very much. Another thing to think about is, How are you going to feel in the future? When it’s all said and done, 10 or 20 years down the road, are you making decisions that you’re going to regret. Why can’t you take care of your first two? Is it a money issue or are you just not ready to be a mother? Is the father(s) still involved…if not I’m sure that is very difficult. I have a friend who has two babies by two different men, and they both bailed on her when she was 6 months pregnant. Of course she is struggling to get by but she is a wonderful mother and she is truly happy. Best of luck to you and I hope you end up making the right decision, whatever that may be for you. And it never hurts to pray! :) God bless!

Please just take some serious time to think about what your going to do. Because your decision will come back to haunt u.