should I have sex with my boyfriend ?

okay well im 14 and well I’ve been dating this guy for 3 months and I really think im in love with him. we always have fun together and he fingers me all the time and I give him handjobs and all that hes been talkin about sex a lot lately and I know I want to but im just scared that if im not good or something we will break up and I will regret everything . I just really dont know what to do . any suggestions ?

Answer #1

babe respect yourself. dont have sex. and your 14 you cant be in love. you have your whole life ahead of u. enjoy it :] being 14 is wonderful. dont try to grow up too fast. have fun while you can. :]

Answer #2

you are way to young, and if you are not ready and respects you then he will not break up with you, if he does then he will go find his wh*re . Stay strong and don’t do anything you are not ready for.

Answer #3

im sorta in the same situation as you but hes not by boyfriend I’ve just known him for 5 years…I dont think you are too young because I am the same age and its your decision…but I would say wait a little longer and see if he really loves you for you and then if your positive you want to then do it :)

Answer #4

… OK.. so enough with all this you are too young hoopla.. look.. if your going to have sex, you are going to do it reguardless of what anyone tells you.. BUT I will tell you this.. IT IS NOT WORTH IT.. just yet.. NOT JUST YET.. give your time to live a little, get yourself into somethings that are fun to do besides sex.. just because you may think you are ready.. doesnt mean you are ready.. do yourself the favor and wait.. a couple reasons to consider.. 1. the guy may get up and leave after he gets what he wants. 2. consider all the possible s.t.d’s. 3. are you ready for motherhood… POINT BLANK.. DO NOT HAVE SEX UNTILL YOU CAN ASSUME THE FULL RESPONSIBILITES OF POTENITALLY RAISING A CHILD/CHILDREN.. goodluck.. superfresh.. P.S.. you know what is best for you.. dont ever let anyone tell you or make you think different..

Answer #5

I know you dont want to hear it but you are too young for it. I had the same problem when I was around you age (2 years ago) I dident have sex and im glad I dident because the moment I said no to her she broke up with me and sometimes guys are in it just to score they dont care about the girl (im a guy by the way) but you should give it more time and if you can try to wait till your married most people say if you love them then go for it but do you know if they love you the same way you love them?

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