Should I have sex in this situation or not?

Ohkay, im 13 and hes 12. But technically we are the same age im just older by a few months. We are both in 7th grade. We dated for about a month or two and had ‘plans’ but they were never fulfilled.

But now hes dating an 8th grader and im dating his best friend. Me, my boyfriend, and him were all tlking on the phone sunday nite. Then my boyfriend had to go. So we remianed tlking. Well we got to tlking and the matters of sex came up. Our plans were to have sex and stuff related to it. I was only 12 at the time though. I know I know. 12.

But when we were going out I promised my viginity to him and his to me. Today is wednesday and he wants to have sex friday. We made plans again and this time I think its going to happen.. Im staying at his house with his sister. Hes going to be there too. When she falls alseep we are supposed to be getten to it. I asked him where and he said up at an elementary schools playground. I said no.. So now we are at his house in his spare room. Im kinda paranoid about getting caught.

Hes wants me to give him a blow job then have sex with him I just dont want anyone to find out. Please help. Should I? Oh and hes moving to florida.. Wtf. So I think I should do it while I have to chance but I dont know how or what to do. He doesnt want to use a condom either. So now im paranoid about getten prego too. And screwing up so I make myself look bad. I still like him and I want to be together. Maybe this will convince him we are meant to be? We seem pretty perfect.. But anyways help! Sex seems scary.

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Answer #1

NO your CLEARLY not ready for sex for one you are 13 years old you are a child with no sex education yes you can easily get pregnant and an std and you know what, this guy is most likley going to tell soemone you had sex, then everyone will know, and tease you about it, and hate to mention it but probably call you a sl*t as well if you have to ask if your ready to have sex, you are NOT ready

this guy is moing anyway, your never going to see him again hes a child with raging hormones, he just wants ses from you and then hes going to leave sleeping with him wont make him stay

then theres the fact that you have a BOYFRIEND and he has GIRLFRIEND so you would both be cheating on your partners, which again is stupid

dont have sex with this guy, save your virginity dont be one of those stupid children who go have and have sex at a young age your mother would be so dissaponted in you if she found out as well save it and save your dignity

and if you must be stupid and run off and rebel and have sex with him and later regret it (because lets face it, you will when your older and mor mature) at least LEARN about sex before you go off having it learn about as well as a male and female reproductive system birth control, contraception, pregnancy and sti/stds don’t have sex until you know the consequences involved with it because the main reason why kids and teens like YOU get pregnant and get stds is because of a lack of sex education

Answer #2

damn girl got the hoes on ya. ohkayy babe. dont do it if your pressured. and ik what it feels like a was in the same spot. I juzz did it but I feel bad now. listen to these other people please.

Answer #3

No no no no big no think bout it 1st off your only 13 stay a kid while you can and hes moving thats so wrong if you do you will be so miserable the thing bout sex is when you do you get a connection and when he leaves theres so much emotional pain espeacialy because hes your 1st and your only 13 I was 16 when I lost it and there was still emotional pain for me even tho were really good friends its tough trust me just dont u’ll regret it for the rest of your life and plus he seems like hes just trying use u

Answer #4

omg DONT DO IT!!! youre gona make a huge mistake! dont loose your virginity to someone you dated 1 to 2 months with. youre waaay to young to be doing that. your making a huge mistake if you are. and not using a condum?HUUUGE mistake kuz if you get prego at 13 then your messin up your life sweety.just bkuz hes moving doesnt mean you have to have sex with tha kid. it sounds like you aint ready so why try it? wait til youre way older. this advice is comin from a fellow 13 yr old so please dont make a mistake by having sex now. just tell him youre too young and not ready but you still like him.you will regret it when youre older so please dont try it. I dont want nobody to suffer wit a baby at a young age. take my advice seriously

Answer #5

DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM IF YOU FEEL PRESSURED INTO IT! The way you are saying this it seems like he is the one coming up with all of this and you are just going along with it. I believe that you shouldnt lose your virginty to somone who doesnt love you or you do not love. You guys dated for 1-2 months. How in love could you be? It honestly doesnt soundlike a good idea, hun. Make the right decision!

Answer #6

I think you should do it and you should go to the playground because you or him could be a screamer and tell him to pull out before he (ums and tell him you want it in the azz if you want

Answer #7

wow every 1 is tell you not to. well do what you want, but you going at this stupid. don’t be doing something you dont want to do(that pertains to everything in life). but if you go thru with this, make sure he wears a condom, just dont be stupid

Answer #8

NO DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM! It seems like he is just forcing you to, ok im in 7th grade to and I know that people usally do something sexually with there boyfriend but not after 1-2 months. Its your desicon not his. And I would be scared to what if you do get caugt’’if you descide to’’.

Answer #9

YOUR TOOO YOUNG!!!

Answer #10

Leave her alone, if she wants to have sex she can but USE Protection and change the condom after 30minutes!

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