Should I have sex if im 13??

13 is young,I would sugest cuddling on the couch and kissing,maybe give him a handjob,this way you dont get pregnant and he is satisfied,let him finger you so you are satisfied

If you don’t know if you should, then you probably shouldn’t. In my opinion thirteen is awful young to be having sex. Especially if you aren’t 100% sure about it and don’t seem to know all the details.

I would have to agree with the previous comments that are posted below… It is a little young to have sex.. And you shouldn’t do it if you arnt 100% sure.. But its your decision no matter what anyone else says.. Its a risky thing though.. And being older then you.. I would have to advise you… Not to have sex…

You are only 13. Sex should be out of the question at your age.
At your age you should be more concerned about your grades and homework and family.
Put it off for as long as you can, you are a young women with a whole lot of dreams ahead of you. Don’t kill your dreams off because you want to have sex.

Your asking us, if you shoukd have sex. Your asking how to have sex.

No you should not have sex. Your very knolodgeble of what sex is in the biggining. So wait a couple of years, and make sure you love your boyfriends. And make sure you know EVERYTHING about sex before going off and having it. Just to be on the safe side and sex wont turn into a regret latter.

Such a waste! Please listen to any of the 3 advices given to you. They really want the best for you.

no, dont have sex if you have to ask other people wethrerYOU should have sex or not, your not ready especially not at 13 with little if any sex education and no, sex is not safe even if you use a condom, you can STILL get pregnant because there not 100% effective…nothing is you can even get an std/sti while wearing a condom if he has one remember to LEARN about sex before you go off having it learn about as well as a male and female reproductive system birth control, contraception, pregnancy and sti/stds don’t have sex until you know the consequences involved with it because the main reason why kids and teens get pregnant and get stds is because of a lack of sex education

having sex is a very big step and it moves you forward to being an adult but because you are so very young having sex could scew up your life. my advice to you is learn more about the dangers and risks and wait a couple years at least till your 16 or 17 if you love your boyfriend a lot and he loves you this shouldnt be a problem. I know that the media demonstrates sex as a amazing thing but what they dont show is that it can cause a lot of serious problems that will change your life forever…learn some more about it good luck