Should I had continued to give myself for free?

The relationship was good (thank God). We were lovers and friends. The problem stated when I wanted to get engage after 7 months of dating. Truthfully, I was doing everything for him (cooking, laundry, etc). So I asked why I’m I doing so much if he has not even put a ring on it? He said he will by this year and then say maybe next year because he was not ready. I decided to stay with him to help him get ready. Then I realized that I was just giving myself up for free (doing wife duties when I’m just a girlfriend). More work on my part with little hope. After that it seem to me he was playing little game; mostly mind games. I prayed and prayed. One day, I got enough and went to his place and broke up with him. Shockingly, he said NO WORDS and just went back inside. Now, I’m missing him and realize I love him more than I thought. I keep wondering why he did not say anything and has not contact me. But God is keeping me strong! What’s your advice. Is there a reason why he did not say anything while and after I broke up with him and should I had just keep giving myself for free?