Should I go all the way?

ok hi! I have been really good frends with this guy fer like 2yrs and we have recently been been talking about banging! and he alwayz tells me that he doens’t wna pressure me and he’ll do watever I wana do…but I am worried about how he will act after if happens!?!?!?!…what do you think I shuld do???

Answer #1

That would be called> “Friends with Benefits”> If both sides are honest going into this, then both will know that it’s solely about sex. You can never accuse him of using you, or vice-versa, because you’ve both acknowledged from the start that you’re, in fact, using each other.

If one of you is going into this secretly hoping for more, then the problem of dishonesty arises, and that person is probably in for a nasty disappointment when it doesn’t play out that way. And trust me, nine times out of 10, FWB never develops into anything more. It’s much more likely that just the opposite will happen. FWB tends to slowly drift out of each other’s lives over time, or if they start seeing someone else seriously.

Various types of emotional fallouts can doom friends with benefits. The most common type is when one of the friends gets too attached and begins wanting something more. If the other person feels differently, they will get hurt. In addition, sometimes one of the parties may become jealous if the other person starts dating someone else seriously. It can be very difficult to separate emotions from sex, but if you want to be FWB, that is exactly what you have to steel yourself to do. Its usually all about sex, and nothing more.

Answer #2

well I wouldnt have sex wit him if you dont go wit him or if you dont love him and trust him there the three things that are impotant to me lol but yea if he loves you and you love him then I would start by kissing and things like that before you went all the way and see if he act diff and if he dont I would go for it

Answer #3

I wouldn’t go all they way if you are uncertain about anything, especially about how he will be afterwards! It could possibly ruin or make a friendship with him awkward.

Answer #4

your friendship will never be the same.and could get wrose

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