Should I Give Him Another Chance?

To be honest,no he doesn’t deserve it. He says he was afraid of being made in front of because he said you had a bad reputation,if he liked you like that he wouldn’t be afraid to be around you,it shows he only cares about himself,calling you a slut and stuff makes it worse,move on before you get hurt again.

M4

friends with benifits is the nice say to say booty call. he also hit you. for two years you let this guy run your emotions. it is time to run your own emotions. get away from him, kick him out of your life. he is not worth the trouble and you diserve much more. hold your head up and find a guy who will treat you like the world not one who treats you like a 24 hour mc donalds.

Ok, you stated this is your first question>we finally slept together after almost 2 years>>Now your saying>we were both friends with bennifitts for almost 2 years!>>So which is it?

we secretly loved each other>>Love is NOT based on sex! And thats all a friends with benefits is. Its ALL about sex, and nothing more! If you really “loved” one another, you both would have commited to each other, in a HEALTHY relationship.

whenever we were all hanging out he would call me a slut, all kinds of things!… he even hit me twice>>I think you have a twisted version of what love is, because verbal abuse, and physical abuse are NOT signs of love.

See this is USUALLY what happens in this type of situation(FWB) one person will start getting attached, but the other person feels differently. Its usually the female that starts to develop feelings, because thats just how were are made, guys however can have sex without any kind of emotional attachment. So friends with beneftis, mainly serves the male gender.

but he also told me we never made it official because of my so called bad reputation>>Funny how sleeping with you, outweighed your “bad” reputation. Hes just using that for an excuse. If he didnt want to get made fun of, then maybe he should be more selective with his sexual partners!

we haven’t spoken in like 5 months then recently he comes back into my life>>Are you a glutten for punishment or what?

You need to REREAD all these again, then decide if you still want to go back>

1. whenever we were all hanging out he would call me a slut, all kinds of things
2. he even hit me twice
3. he also told me we never made it official because of my so called bad reputation
4. he was scared he was going to get made fun of
5. we haven’t spoken in like 5 months then recently he comes back into my life Those are ALL signs that he didnt have one ounce of respect for you. He treated you more like an object, rather than a person!

should I give him a second chance to see where things may go?>>You’ve already seen where they would go…NOWHERE! After 2 years your FWB was at a standstill. What makes you think after 5 mos. things are going to be different? You need to wake up, get out of the past, and stay away from this type of relationship, because for the most part, there never is any good that comes out of it.