Should I get married at 19?

Don’t marry someone you’ve been seing a month. That’s really just the very start of a relationship. It’s WAYYY too soon.

I’ve never heard anybody put those words together. “we both had surgery and we realized how much we really cared about each other” Don’t do it.

Ermm.. NOt Reallyy… Yhuve Only Really Been ClOse FOr 7 MOnths and Only Been Together For 1 MOnthh. ii Really Dont Thiink Yhu Shud. YHu Shud Waiit At LEAST A COuple Of Yearss.

• 19 iis Quiite Young To Get Marriied. ;; <3

wait and see if things are right than it doesnt matter if you get married now or later but waiting is safer just in case it doesnt work

Hey, think of it like this, you are planning to spend your whole lives together anyway so what is the rush. Wait it out a few more years and figure out if it is really what you want.

I recommend waiting. You are both really young and probably need to mature so that the seriousness of what is being proposed can be established. I would say try to live together for awhile. I am doing this and it is working out pretty well.

Not to mention both of you dont know where your careers will take you or of your goals will be met by staying together. I would tell him thats its not that you dont care about him, but you think you should approach the situation very maturely, prepared, and with a good expectation of what will happen.

no

u should wait if you really love him then why rush things just enjoy being wit him your young you still have time

O_o uhm no… I mean seriously N.O.

its too short a time and if you get married and get kids this early, you will most likely break up and then you are left with kids etc.

going at a slower pace is better…

Just because you “love” him and feel like you will be together for a while doesn’t mean you should run off and get married. I’m 19 also and I’d love to marry my boyfriend but deep inside I know we haven’t been together for anywhere near long enough to handle marriage. If you truly “love” each other you should be willing to wait for a better time.

I personally don’t think you’ve been together for long enough to handle marriage.

One of my best friends got married at the age of 19. She had known the guy a long time but didn’t start dating till she was 17. After about year of dating he proposed and they were married 8 months later. They are so happy together.

Make sure you talk about the future and what you both are expecting out of it. Also give some time for parents to adjust to the idea. With getting married young you will need the support of both of your families.