Should I get involved with him?

Hey there… To answer your question on whether or not it would be a wise choice to become romantically involved with this guy, I would strongly have to say NO. Like myself, you are only eighteen years old. You have no idea who you really even are… Nor do you really yet have any idea of what sort of personality traits you are searching for in a guy.

When my mom dated my dad, she didn’t find out until months into the relationship that he also had a one-year old son. She married him, and now my ENTIRE family is forced to deal with this 19-year old spoiled brat… He is a terrible..terrible brother to me.. He never calls me on my birthday..(he never calls me period). My mom and dad raised this boy as best as they could. They loved him, gave him everything, taught him right from wrong, but his jealous mother brainwashed him into believing that my mom and dad really hated him (she’s a psycho path). She would hide all of my dad’s checks, all of my dad’s birthday cards, etc.

This is completely your choice, but believe me when I say that he is bad news… You need to see what else is out there. Don’t go for the horndog man with a messy problem pushed over to the side. You dont deserve it. He doesn’t deserve you.

I will always remember my moms words, "Never marry a man who already has a child. Take it from me. I'm already there..."

: [ You will find someone so much better than this loser… (Never date a guy who disrespects you by giving you butt taps) That’s a dead give away! JERK ALERT

Hope this helps. Take my advice. I’m in a huge mess because of a father and son issue!

~Lady