Should I do it or not...

Ok.. I keep debating on whether I should or shouldn’t have sex…because I know what the consequences could be, but I want to experince it and see how it feels and stuff…and some of the friends I talk to that are boys..they sortof lead me on to doing it. And since I’m in high school I want to try new things and adventure out. So should I wait until I’m more older…or should I give it a try… P.S I’m a virgin

Answer #1

Sex isnt a game Hun, and your wanting it for all the WRONG reasons! It is important to really value your virginity before you even think about giving it up. If you under-value it you cheat yourself out of a once in a lifetime experience. The sense of desire brought on during puberty is new and it can be hard for a teen to know what to do with it. Add things like peer pressure, insecurity to the mix and it could spell disaster. Your only defense is to be honest with yourself about why you want to have sex.

Sex is NOT… ~a way to make somebody love you or make a commitment to you ~a test of your love for your partner ~a measure of how mature or grown up you are ~a good way to get back at your parents or assert your independence ~a leisure activity ~always fun or enjoyable, sometimes you will wonder if it was really worth it

When you have sex for the wrong reasons you hurt yourself!

Answer #2

ah…go for it. sex s awesome…once you start you aint gna wna stop lol..but just b careful with who you sleep with. STDs and pregnancy are a big no no for you right now. protect urself. start on birth control or smthn and make sure the guy always wears a rubber…but he,just try it. theres always a first time for everything

Answer #3

dont do it. you should respect yourself and not try adventures that will hurt you. think ahead, about your life after you do it, pregnancies, STDs, is that the adventure you want? if so, then do it. but if you want to take a stand in your life, and not be like everyother girl, then wait.

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