should I breakup with him?

my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months but hes getting a bit clingy and wants me to take showers and stuff with him already and we fight a lot except for when we are doing “stuff”. My two best friends seem to be on his side and talk to him about everything I talk to them about. I can’t trust them anymore to talk about him. So this kid that I liked last year but never liked me told me he likes me now and I have been texting him. I love my boyfriend but I feel like he’s too attached and gets too jealous easily. I have tried a few time to tell him but he gets mad. He always questions me when I try to even say hi to another guy. I kind of want to break up with him but my parents like him and I like his parents. plus, I’m worried about what my friends are going to think and what he is going to think. I want us to still be close and I will still love him. I just need my space. Plus I sort of like this other guy. Also I feel bad because he spent like $200 on me for christmas and just bought me a under armour sweatshirt for $50 for the heck of it yesterday. Also, valentine’s day is right around the corner. I don’t want to hurt him and I love him but I don’t know? can anyone give me advice please???