Should I break up with my boyfriend?

Ok so I’m 18 and I been dating this guy for about 6 months and at first I really didn’t want to date him b/c he’s 9 years older than me. But I looked past his age and I decided to date him. Now things were all good for the first couple of months then we had some drama but we dealt with it. Now I’m about 800 miles away from him @ school and I just don’t know what I should do with our relationship. I mean we talk on the phone but I am far away and I don’t know what he’s doing. My friends think that I’m stupid for even going out with him in the first place. And they constantly say what does a guy his age want w/ a girl my age. Now I don’t know whether or not he’s cheating and I don’t know if I should just forget about him. What do you guys think? It would help if I got an older male point of view?

Answer #1

He’s 27 years old wow.. ok ONE. My boyfriend is 1.336 miles away from me. I trust him that’s why I am still with him. One, he might not want to just get in your pants, he prolly wants a relationship. I doubt he’s cheating if he loves you he’ll wait. It’s your choice weather you break up with him or not… think would life be better with or without him?? How will you live?? What will he do?? Also 6 months is enough time to figure out if you LOVE him and he LOVES you.. if you dont love him or he doesn’t love you and you now that you never will then you should break up but if you love eachother than he’s only thinking of you and just like with my boyfriend i talk to him on the phone.. OH another thing.. does he call you or do you call him… if he calls you he really loves you and wants to talk to you.. austin is always calling me whenever he gets a chance.. and I do the same we always want to be together.. is that hoe you feel also?? You need to think all of this through before you make your desion.

Answer #2

i would stay with him if hes been treating u good so far

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