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Should I Be Worried? Really need guys opinion.

Ok so my boyfriend and I have been going out for a while now, and we have known each other for a long time. We love each other very much and he’s coming up to see me in April ( we are dating long distance) and that time he is also going to take my virginity. Atleast, I’m planning on doing stuff with him. But there’s this one thing holding me back. He isn’t a virgin and he lost it to his ex girlfriend.

They were dating for 2 years and then broke up. He says he hates her now and doesn’t talk to her much. There not friends but they do say hi and stuff. That’s what he told me but today I checked his myspace and she sent him screenshots of them video chatting. Which meens, he’s been video chatting with her, when he says there not even talking that much anymore. One time he also told me that she had the sickest curves, which obviously I don’t wanna hear.

And also, she IMed him on AIM a couple days ago talking about how he still cares about her and everything. He told her no he doesnt, cause she’s a b*tch. I told him to tell her about me so she would back off and he wouldnt. He said he didn’t need to make her jealous, but I didn’t meen it like that. I just think she should know. He said she would never come between us and I shouldnt worrry, but I still do.

Im worried that she might come between us and he goes back to her. It also tears me apart that I can’t be his first and she had to be it. I’m so jealous of that. Am I just worrried too much or should I be worried? PLEASE help.

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Answer #1

yes he still loves her if he didn’t love her why is it hard for him to tell her about you…so hopefully you make the right choice and for this guy not to be your first.

Answer #2

guys dont get it wrong, hes not coming up here just to have sex with me. we dont even know if were going to yet, we just wanna spend time with eachother .

Answer #3

Im sorry but he still has feeling for her. If he won’t tell her about you then for sure he still has feelings for her.

Answer #4

Honestly the guy is after your virginity. Trust me I am aguy.The ex-gal, he will sleep with her anytime and still keep you. GO slow please! Sex is not everything. If he cant tell you about the ex, then he doesnt sound straight. Gal he is after your body!!!

Answer #5

ok im a guy and I’ve dealt with guys who were dicks he still loves her! my sister kacy was in a relationship with this guy long distance named cody and he was going to come to NY and take her virginity a few weeks later he started to be a total dick to her and broke it off after that we found out that there was another girl and he played with her emotions…im a guy and I dont understand how men can lie to people who they love, or cheat on girls.

Answer #6

I am no boy but, I know from my experiences with guys and I have been in your prediciment. I hate to tell you this and this is going to hurt you. HE STILL LOVES HER. He tells you he doesnt because he wants you to think that you are the only chic on his mind but if they are talking and he says he hates her-HE IS LYING. Be smart and thnk about this. If you were with a guy and you had an ex that you still love, would you tell him that you still love your ex-NO because you dont wan2 lose him. M I right? let me know. Feed back. You got to be really real. He loves her.

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