Should I act like im enjoying it?

hmm…really? fingering is normally something that is stimulating for most girls. hmmm…

why not ask him to try something different, like rubbing your clit? or try exploring with what turns you on? I give the guy credit, he’s trying to make you feel good…maybe he’s been with a girl who really enjoyed it, and he’s assuming all girls do? talk with him…I know its a rather personal subject, but talk about it…

explain it’s not much of a turn on for you…right now…and maybe you can try something else? what does turn you on? do you like your breasts being played with? or having your neck kissed or nipped?

suggest other things and see if that works. but still..let him try a bit and see if it works for you…either way…stay open minded about his ideas…and he needs to listen to yours…

I agree with cminor. you should just tell him where it feels pleasurable and what doesnt. then he will learn how to make you happy. hope it helps.

well if you really don’t want to do it I guess the best way is to tell him the truth… you should never do what you don’t want to do x

why don’t you teach him to make it enjoyable?