Should I let him pop my cherry without a condom?

Well he doesn’t know what he is talking about, because you can still get pregnant even if the guy doesn’t cum, its called pre-cum and its basically a lubrication that comes out of the tip of the penis naturally when aroused, and it contains sperm. I also would just recommend wearing a condom period because you never know what could go wrong. Trust me on this… i know what i am talking about when it comes to condoms and everything. But most importantly make sure you are ready to lose it with him, becareful with guys. They are ruthless.

jason

NEVER let anybody put his penis inside you even for a second without having had him tested first and see all the results yourself!!! Especially if he has had sex before. Often people have diseases without ever finding out about them! Men can be carriers of diseases that only women get, so he may think he’s all healthy and not have himself tested, but you’ll end up with something nasty. There are a lot of common viruses that people eventually contract sooner or later, out of negligence… I got one of those my first time having sex because he wanted to go “all natural” for the pop, and had no idea he had that thing :( So yeah, forget natural and be SAFE!

Also, lube. Yes! The first time often hurts because, well, you’re tearing a part of your body (assuming you didn’t break your hymen with sports early) and that stings on its own, but also, you’ll be very tight just because your vagina has never been used before. So it may be difficult to get the penis in at first, and there will be a lot of friction. Dry friction hurts, and given that you’ll probably be nervous and all, you may not produce enough lubricant of your own (not “get wet” enough). So make sure you have a bottle of lube just in case. Even if you do get wet, more lube always helps. It will make the penetration easier and less painful. I wish somebody had told me about that back then… haha…

Good luck and have fun!

Doesn’t the matter of the vagina being made with a seal on it suggest to anyone that sex was meant for just one lady and her one man? You know, you only get to give away your virginity once - think about who you’re NOT giving it to later… - a concerned Mr Darcy

Use a condom. I wouldn’t worry so much about the lube, but keep it handy in case you need it, you probably won’t, but you never know.

You can get pregnant even if he doesnt come, that liquid in his penis comes out without ejaculation, and that little game of “just the tip” usually becomes more fast.

Oh and if he has an STD and even if he doesnt know it or show signs, and you have sex without a condom, congrats you got one too.