Why isn't he thinking about me?

This guy I love is with someone else, I am trying to do everything I can to get over him. But My Memories are haunting me, and are reminding me how much we were good together. Seeing him with her makes me feel he doesn’t have anymore feelings for me, but I know he does, cause he still looks at me the same as he did last year. They’ve been together for 3-4 months and I still expect him to come back to me at anytime. How long will it take before OUR memories start haunting him?

Answer #1

Dear lele03, We can’t make others want or love us. He has obviously moved on and so should you. You need to find something else to occupy your mind with. Try going out with your friends male and females…going to movies, dinners, doing fun things. When your mind turns back to HIM then find another pattern of thought. The memory of you may never haunt him and you have to realize this. He may have totally gotten over you. It may be your imagination that he is looking at you like he wants you back. Time to face the fact that it probably is over. Remember why broke up in the first place. Sue…good luck

Answer #2

They prob are haunting him, just becos we are with someone else doesnt mean memories dont haunt us. But unfortunelty he is with someone and sounds like he is happy. So you cant really do anything right now becos he has a gf, so just keep yourself busy and go out with friends and try and find someone else as well.

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