should I???

ok so my boyfrien looks me in my eye ALL THE TIME and tells me that he loves me but one day we were in class talking and we were talking about sex and he said “if I ever wanted would you let me” and I was in a real silly mood and I said “boy please you cant handle this” and then he was like “o really?” and then I said “really” he said “I can show you IF you want me to” and I was like “OK” but then I got seriouse and I said “what if I get pregnant” and then he started thinking about it and was like “o dang I forgot all about the that” and the question is:SHOULD I LET HIM OR SHOULD I WAIT BECAUSE I WANT TO BUT…HELP ME please

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Answer #1

You shouldnt.

You know why? because you’re questioning it.

You’re not ready for something if yoe seriously have to question it, especially sex. Your virginity isnt something that you should give up because you thought you wanted to. Its good that you are thinking of consequences in the long run. There are a lot of possibility of things going wrong, but many of those can be fixed [ie pregnancy=whatever you prefer abortion w/e, or STD=meds, etc] but one thing you cant fix is regret, and by the way you are acting you arent sure at all and you would just be doing it out of spite and it seems like you would regret it in the long run.

So my answer is NO, you should not do it until you are 100% SURE, and make sure you KNOW you are sure not THINK you are sure.

hope I helped?

Answer #2

do it safely and if you want to

Answer #3

if you dont know how to have sex responsibly, and you are wondering if you should “let him”, uhm no… sex isnt about letting someone do something to you… and pregnancy is a possibility (you want to see how much, just browse this site and see how many irresponsible teens got pregnant “accidentally”)

Answer #4

dont do it… trust me… you should wait till your marryed… seriously…

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