What should I do with my short term life (read paragraph)?

Alright, this may be a bit long, but please take time to read it :) I’m kind of panicking about what I want to do with my life. Next year, I was planning to stop hairdressing and work somewhere else- saving all of my money that I can to go away to India to live. I ran into one of my old friends today and he is in college nearly finished his degree, he has all of these big plans about his career and stuff and when I was on my way home I couldn’t stop thinking about what if I had gone to college- Would my life be different? Better? Worse? Am I on the right track?…. Ever since before I can remember, I have wanted to travel the world and I still really do, the problem is- I have nobody to go with. The time has come for it all to really happen and I still haven’t found a travel partner that wants to do the same things that I do. I’m wondering if I should go it alone, or wait until I’m friends with somebody who wants to travel with me- the only problem being, if I wait, will it be too late? I’m just really stressing, and could use some insight into what you would do in my situation, where you would work next year, and if you would go alone, or how you would find somebody to go with- that’s if you would even go at all! Thanks so much for reading.

Answer #1

Go it alone. it’ll be real scary but sometimed you just gotta you know take a leap of faith. If you keep on waiting for something to happen the world will pass you by.

Answer #2

It’s really hard to think about the ‘what ifs’ and everything that could be. Technically speaking, though, you could be anywhere you want to be at any time. All it takes is courage and effort.

If it were I in your situation, though, I’d prepare for everything and give it a shot. I’d work at the place that would help my goal the best, and go from there. It’s a scary thing to do alone, but there’s a huge chance that you’ll meet a lot of great people along the way and do great at what you’re really wanting to do.

It’s never too late, in my opinion, but you definitely don’t want to rely on someone else coming and wanting to do the same as you in order to follow your dreams.

Answer #3

you can go alone, and thats where you meet new friends! and i think going alone would be an adventure for you, :D good luck

Answer #4

You can’t wait around for someone else, it may never happen then. Dreams are meant to be followed and you are obviously a strong outgoing person, I think you’d do great on your own!

Answer #5

I say it’s sincerely worth a try on your own. While it really can be dangerous, an airhorn or a whistle can do wonders with most situations. As Patricia so eloquently put it, you can’t, and shouldn’t, wait for someone else. If this is your dream, then you should go ahead with it while you have the chance. On top of that, I read only recently the essay of a man who travels alone, and he was explaining how amazing it is, staying it hostels and meeting new people everywhere because you’re not bound to anyone. As long as you’re careful, I say go. If you’re not enjoying it all, you don’t have to depend on anyone else to go home.

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