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shareing the love of 2 men..what is a girl to do.

I recently got in touch with an old friend from highschool. He is unhappily married with 3 little daughters. We started chatting online and we talk all the time..we have fallen in love…He wants to leave her and wantst to be with me. He says if I get pregant he could leave..I told him that is the wrong way to do it. I told him to be honest with her. He and I really liked eachother in High School..he is so wonderful and a great dad…but this affair of the heart is killing me..plus my ex husband wants to reconsile…he is living with someone…I am a mess..I love these men..and do not know what to do…help me..I am 39.

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Sometimes we fall in love with the wrong people at the wrong times. He is a married man, no matter if he is happy or unhappy, he is still married and has children. You have to think of someone other than yourself right now. Think about his wife and his kids. Do you really want to be that homewrecker? How would you feel if it were your husband and kids and someone was trying to get him from you and sneaking around. It would tear your apart right? You need to see things from another perspective. Tell him that you can not be with him right now. The timing is not right. If he leaves his wife, that’s his choice and you don’t need to be apart of it. Give him some space and he needs to decide what to do on his own.

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