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help iam ongly 13 and have ongly had 1 boyfriend because when guys ask me out I turn them down.tell me is that bad.and how old should you be to have sex.And how to you get to that point you dont just walk in a room and start taking off your clothes do you. Amd how is the best way to do it.

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Answer #1

Babe I’ve seen a bunch of your questions around the site.

You’re 13, just got your first period and you’re being obsessive about your weight and looks.

The best advice I can offer you is accentuate what you have, Dont cake on makeup, if you feel you must wear makeup only wear a small amount (eyeliner/mascara)

Dont worry about your breasts coming (I myself never really got boobs, which can be frustrating but its easier to not deal with shallow men this way). Start excersizing, eating healthy and do not go anorexic. You’ll be sexy in no time.

The good boy’s come around without you having to do too much except for a little flirting, dressing like a slut doesn’t impress anyone. If you feel you’re ready for a boyfriend be up front about it, say yes when they ask you out, experiment but dont go too far. Boy’s are usually 2 years behind girls maturity wise, so basically anyone your age will behave like an 11 year old girl.

As for sex, Wait. seriously, I lost my virginity when I was almost 15 and I still think it was too early. Sex is much better when you love the person so just wait, it’ll make it much better.

Good luck. :D

Answer #2

I CAN’T REALLY GIVE YOU THE BEST ANSWER BUT THE BEST THING TO DO IS WAIT. HOW MANY CASES OF PREGNANCY OR STD DO YOU HEAR NOW A DAYS. WAY TOO MANY AND ALL FOR HE CURIOSITY OF SEX. SEX IS SUPPOSED TO BE MORE THAN THAT. IS SUPPOSED TO BE BECAUSE YOU REALLY CARE FOR EACH OTHER. KNOW WHO YOU ARE GOING OUT WITH BEFORE YOU DECIDE TO “GIVE IT UP”, THERE ARE A LOT OF CRUEL GUYS OUT THERE.

Answer #3

You shouldn’t have sex untill your at least 18 and can care for a baby! I my self lost my virginity at 15 and also got pregnant it is not a simple thing. Just do it when your ready. And once your ready you will know what to do.

Answer #4

when you get older, It’ll come naturally to you and you won’t have to worry about what and how to do it, wait till you’re ready.

Answer #5

You should not even be thinking about sex at your age.

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