Sex, please help

Ok, ok, ok I know this is going to sound weird but… Well, not really to some of you but anyway… Me and my boyfriend had sex tonight, and after words I bled a little bit, I wasn’t really suprised though. But I was wondering I heard that your hymen rips and thats how you bled, but he went in all the way and he’s really big! And it feels like he went to far… I dont know but my stomach hurts ia little bit is it possible that he could have hit something… Or does it hurt when a guy goes all the way on your first time…because I thought the pain was only where your hymen is???

Answer #1

No, the pain doesn’t just stop where your hymen is. At least, I’ve never heard of anyone feeling pain in just that area. But anyway, if you JUST lost your virginity tonight, then you’re going to be a little sore for a while. It takes getting used to, but it gets easier. Just go slow next time, and if you feel he’s gone too far in, tell him. Communication is key.

Answer #2

I agree yopu have to communicate with him tell him whats goning on with your body! that way next time it could be more easy

Answer #3

dont worry its very likely that he DIDNT hit anything down there he most likeley did however rip your hymen (which doesnt just rip from sex…also things like tampons, sports and horesriding) thats why you bled, because your hymen was ripped if it hurt it probably meant that you werent 100% comfortable and relaxed …you need to relax and not tense up, or sex can hurt more any pain you feel now should go away in a few days if it doesnt though, you should see the doctor just to be sure everything down there is ok also I hope you two used a condom otherwise you could be pregnant or have an sti/std

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