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Well im not sure how long it’ll be till my girlfriend wants to have sex cus I wont push her into it in any way. So I thought I’d just be ready for whenever it is. I’ve fingered her and it seems that I can only go like 2 1/2 inches up and theres like a little hole but its nearly shut (she’s usually cummed by the time I’ve got that far) and she says it hurts if I push it so im not sure what would happen if we tried cus I’ve heard it hurts girls the first time and I wouldnt want to force it. So is that how all girls are untill the first time and they loosen up? cus I will not fit whatsoever in that lol.

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Answer #1

maybe shes not relaxed. make her rlyyy relaxed first. get her wet before you even finger her. she should losen up a bit and make it easier. make sure your nails are cut cz that could hurt her. take it slow and be gentle and yeah the first time you have sex it will hurt her so be gentle and dont expect it to last very long she might be sore a couple of days after.

Answer #2

she is going to be really tight and it will hurt a lot! but make sure you are both relaxed and LISTEN to her! it will hurt the first few times, and it will probably even hurt you, but it will be worth it!

Answer #3

well my first time being fingered by someone didnt hurt all that much I think its your tolerance for pain or anything in that matter, BUT if she does not know once oyu get after that part of being hurt it will feeel way much better and its most definitly worth it ;)

Answer #4

ok thanks, I always bite my nails so they’re super short and I’ve heard that before too so I make sure they dont hurt her. She’s usually relaxed though, atleast I think, cus we always makeout, lay together, and play around for an hour beforehand. But she is really shy, never had a boyfriend, and never had an orgasm till I fingered her the first time, so it may be it ill try to tell her to relax and see what happens

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