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Did he use me

Ok so I became sex buddies with my ex and we had sex once. Then I texted him and said I didnt want to be sex buddies wit him anymore because I wasnt comfortable. I didnt get a response but two days later he started cursing me out. He called me names and told me never to contact him again. Why did he do that. Did he use me. I mean I accepted the fact that that may be a possibility but it seems too wierd. I mean before we became sex buddies he told me that he wanted me to be his girl again and that he still loved me. Why would he do that if he loved me. I want an answer. Should I ask him?

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Answer #1

Well, I think your ex boyfriend was just using you so he could get what he wanted. Not all men want sex but, half of the population of men like this man only wanted sex and I would suggest that you stop seeing each other and I don’t believe that he would love you when he’s acting this way. The reason I think he might be acting the way he’s acting is because now he knows that you two won’t be sex buddies anymore and that hurts him. So, this is your choice to get out of this relationship and move on since there are plenty of guys that you can choose to date. I wish you the best and ignore any text messages you receive from him because its just going to cause trouble for you so leave. Good luck.

Answer #2

Don’t you have any respect for yourself? Obviously not if your willing to be someones sex buddy. Yeah he probley did use you, but you set yourself up for that. Clearly he told you those things to get in your pants, and it worked. Face it - this “friendship” or whatever the heck you want to call it, is over. He probley found another sex buddy.

Answer #3

well to be honest he probably cursed you out because he loves you or atleast thinks he does, but when you said you didn’t want to do that with him anymore he could have felt like that doing that was the only chance you 2 could get back togethor…but yah there is a strong possibility that he used you

Answer #4

ok I think he felt like you used HIM. I dont think you did but in his mind it seems like you had sex with him was done and got out with the excuse you were uncomfortable. that is what he thinks not what I think. just say that you love him too and want a relasionship and you felt weird just being sex buddies and you werent trying to use him and that you care about him. the fact that he got made is good because he cares more about you than just for a good time because if that is all he want he wouldnt of gotten mad that you ended it. just look at it in his point of veiw and thats all I got good luck w. him

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