Why am I so scared when I'm alone?

I got a friend named Jenny and she had the same problem, so much so she could barely sleep and she had panic attacks whenever she was away from home. It got so bad that meeting new people would frighten her and night terrors were creeping in along with her ever growing insomnia. There was an underlying reason for all this, but it did take time for her to understand it. Her parents were in the process of getting a divorce and her mom was to controlling and dominated her way too much. I did give her a suggestion that seemed to help with her night terrors and insomnia, but the issues with her mom were out of my control. Has something happened in your life recently that has concerned you? Some dramatic or traumatic event that recently happened?

no, not really. Like i don’t have bad dreams, i don’t think i ever dream at all and i’m not scared of meeting new people, and i can go 3 weeks being away from home every summer to go to a friends place. This fear i guess, has been slowly developing over the years because i remember always bringing my sister around our old house as kids, never being alone. So what ever it is, its not resent

sooo, looking it up on line, the Monophobia, the one page gives ideas of what some causes are. And i think I have it down to 2 options. Either the ‘ your scared something bad will happen if your alone’ one because when i am alone i am so jumpy at everything and i hide when i can. OR the ‘never learned to be comfortable by yourslef’ option, because i was always with my twin as a kid. So reading up on it is making like, alot of conections :s