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Something happened with my roomate recently, we were not drunk or anything, we were just watching a movie, and he started sliding over to my side...and one thing led to another...we didnt do IT but we were pretty close...anyway, now I have to live with him and see him every day...(we have a one year lease) I havent seen him since, (happened yesterday haha). I don't want to be attracted to him anymore, and I dont want to go out with him, he's an awesome roomate and I just don't want to lose him as a friend either... I can't stop thingking about him though...that's the problem. Any advice? Thanks, A xx
If you believe that you to have built up a lot of sexual tension, then maybe you need to just get it out of your system (weather you do it with each other or other people) it NEEDS to be done. just think if you two keep being passive about the whole thing then you two will then separate. It makes more sence to just go ahead and talk to each other about it or just DO something about it before things get out of hand.
(btw I'm a girl) Should I pretend nothing happened when I see him, or, say something like, thank god we didnt do it, its better this way...'' I think I'm starting to miss him a little when h'es not around...Imagine going out with your roomate..ew...
just be yourself... don't change on how you live with her... just control yourself either...
Time to time you should DO IT! Then be roommates again, for a longer time.
