revenge!

Just a second, before reading this, keep this in mind, you are not a pissed out bitch, instead I think you are bleady beutiful. Fine, first of all I have a question to ask you. Ask this question to yourself at once…I mean to your own soul…..that ….”Do I still love him?” Because from your letter I understand that you have been not staying together for sometime. He might or might not have succeeded in keeping his thoughts away from you. And your friend have been wanting your BF even since you and your BF had good relationship. She might have even tried to attract him couple of times in the past. But his strong feeling for u was keeping him away from your “ok” friend. Or if she was a good friend of you, she might have been suppressing her love towards him just because she did not want to spoil the good relationship with you…… ….And now she knows you are no more his GF and he is not your BF anymore. What about him? he became brocken heart cuz he lost his GF (you). Dude, Pls understand this simple theory, whenever two people with same feelings meet, it is quite obvious that there arises a relationship between them! You may call this as love, or good friendship etc …anything. And this is what happened with your BF. Now you decide Ms. Ashlee, you have two options, Option 1. If this is your photograph, I don’t think it will be difficult for you to find a new BF, cuz you are beutiful. And if that happens you can simply show him staying with some other guy, which would be the sweetest revenge that a girl can take against her boy. I am dead sure that this will make him more and more upset…bcoz the truth is he still wants you. If he is upset, it will spoil his relationship with your “ok” friend. Observing this you can enjoy! But what you earn?, nothing!, Instead you are loosing his love, your love, and ultimately you are loosing him!. Revenge neither brings you pleasure nor love.

Option2. Infact be + ve. Do you know something?, a word from you, a single word from you can change all these present obstacles. Who knows he is still waiting for a start from your part? He may be expecting a word from you to start a new relationship with u. He may be feeling shame to do it from his part. And you have nothing to loose by doing this…absolutely nothing! But you have lot to gain, you can gain his love back your old memmories, your love, what else you can snatch him back from your “ok” friend! You are getting all your happiness back. All what you have to pay is a “word”! A damn word is blocking you from his love! Anyway I strongly recommend you to adopt option2 before choosing the 1st option….But what is that damn word still? sorry I am afraid I am not the righ person to tell you this…just ask anybody about this in this funadvice community. They may help you. Incase even after 1 week u did n’t get the “word”, just get back to me! I will only tell you…. Best of luck, take care

Yours Appu

“Its not who I am underneath, but what I do that defines Me”

you realise you are a bigger person then these 2 combined! and get them out of your life, move on and forget about them becos they are not worth having in your life, esp your friend, she is supposed to be your friend and she has been hiding the fact that she has been secretly talking to him behind your back. Get rid of them and move on, when they see you extremly happy with your next guy and completely over it thats your revenge!