Rape victim, please help

July 15th I was raped by my 16 year old boyfriend. I was home alone, I had been really depressed that day, so he came over because he thought had killed myself. I wasn’t answering any of his calls and I fell asleep, thats why. I didn’t know he was coming over so I opened the door to him. He cried a lot and said he was so scared about me. I told him we should go outside in case my parents came home and thought something happened between us.

I don’t exactly remember what happened then, but I know somehow he got turned on and tried to put me in the mood. He made out with me and made me give him a blow job.

After that he took me behind our pool and pulled his pants down all the way. He told me to pleasure him. I gave him a hand job and a few other things like that. I don’t like giving him blow jobs, because he’s about 8 inches and its way too much for me.

Then he told me to sit on his face and he pulled my pants and panties down. I didn’t resist to anything, because he is about twice my size and really strong. He gave me a rim job, then got behind me. He then proceeded to anal rape me. I had never played with myself down there, and he didn’t use any kind of lubricant so it hurt a lot. I cried just from sheer pain.

It didn’t last very long because my father came home a few minutes later. He has no idea what happened to me though.

I told my mom only part of the story so she doesn’t know I was actually raped. I told one of my closest friends, but not my best friend. I also told my older sister last night. I didn’t report it to the police, because I had no evidence. I know its stupid, but I’m still with him.

He hasn’t tried anything since, and he said he’s really sorry for it.

Please help me. I don’t even know if what he did was technical rape. I’m only 15 and I have no idea what to do.

Answer #1

Im sorry for what happend.

Tell your Parents the FULL story. Otherwise it will eat you up inside for the rest of your life! Its your only option, or go to the Police yourself. The longer you wait the more worried youll be.

Answer #2

What you need to do is break up with him. Why the HELL would you stay with him after he basically forced you to have sex with him?! That’s ridiculous! You need to break up with him he’s a scumbag.

Answer #3

:/ In that case…

The first thing you need to do, no matter how hard it may seem, is to get rid of him. I talk about respect in relationships a lot- And that’s something he has none of. If he had any respect for you, he would have never done that. It’s a good idea to let your parents know, so they can handle things from there.

I’m so sorry. Best of luck to you. x

Answer #4

Thing was, he threatened me about it. Thats why I didn’t resist at all. He almost strangled me before all that happened. He knew I didn’t want it. I’ve talked to him about sex before and he knows how I feel about it.

Answer #5

If you didn’t resist nor did you tell him to stop, I really wouldn’t consider that as rape…You were leading him on and by going along with it, you basically gave him the consent.

He probably thought you wanted it as much as he did. So don’t take it too seriously. Just talk to your boyfriend about it. Tell him how it made you feel and it won’t happen again.

Answer #6

Im so sorry that happened to you but you hve to tell your parents EVRYTHING and get rid of the guy. you might want to think about therapy sometimes it helps to talk about things

Answer #7

sorry for what happened, but like eveyone else said, tell your parents right away before it happens again. break up with him he isnt the right person to be with

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