Question about a dying friendship

I had a close friend and made the mistake of telling her I loved her. I told her I knew she didn’t feel the same way about me, but also said the reason I was telling her was it was killing me when she’d talk about dating other guys. I knew she was upset with me but it seemed the more she thought about it the angrier she got. She said I ruined our friendship. I apologized for hurting her and tried to get her to meet me to talk about it but she refused., and said if I didn’t understand why I needed to learn to move on. I wrote her an email and said I hoped she would forgive me someday. She responded: “Of course I forgive you. It takes time. You need to step back and let it happen.” I left her along after that, which was about a month ago. I’m totally confused. Am I holding false hope to think that someday we’ll try to rebuild the relationship or should I forget and just move on?

Answer #1

From what she emailed you back saying, sounds like you 2 can become friends again with no problem. Though considering the situation, if she’s not into you, I suggest you forget about her and move on. It’s only hurting you if you love the girl that way and you’re close to her but she doesn’t feel the same to you. While she’s happy with her new lover, you’ll be what? You’ll still be close to her and still love her eh? Just forget about her.

People who say that you can still be friends with her, sure you can, but you’re risking your ability to move on and find another love in life. In some cases, the people become friends again and they don’t love the other person anymore, but more often than not, their relationship just ends up dead anyways because the people slowly contact each other less and less. When people focus on something, they usually miss out on other opportunities.

Main point- don’t love a girl if she doesn’t love you the same way, you’re only hurting yourself by keeping the pie in your sight. If you can’t help but love her, it’s simple, cut off contact with her, overtime you’ll get used to not contacting her and she’ll slowly fade from your mind.

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