What if my boyfriend uses me as a punching bag?

You ARE stupid…

For having an abusive boyfriend, AND for asking advice but disallowing the ONLY OBVIOUS ANSWER. So why even ask? You KNOW you should end the relationship, and report him, everyone else does too. Its hilarious how you try to ‘sugar-coat’ the fact that he BEAT YOUR A*S UP. You have a swollen eye, cut brow, your whole body is battered & bruised, but according to YOU, he’s just ‘very physical sometimes’

This indicates a DANGEROUS problem for you. He has beaten you down psychologically too. Now you have (or always had) a submissive mentality. So, there are only TWO options. You END THE RELATIONSHIP… or…

Just stay, and let IKE do what he does best…

i’m sorry if u don’t want to admit it or not, but u’re making exuses for him..leave him unless u want to fight him every now and then…leave him

You might not WANT the truth, but you’re going to get it from me. LEAVE HIM. I know you might love him. But he hits you. Is that showing love back? If you like getting beaten then stay with him. If you want to feel safe, leave him. It isn’t only his temper. That’s probably just the way he REALLY is. And you’ve just never noticed it.

you both need help.

he needs to see a conselor for his anger problems…he seriously does…

and you my friend need to go see a docter and make sure no internal damage was done to your body.

then you need to go talk to a professioanl and explain what you felt for him, and why you felt that it was acceptable to let yourself be hurt…

sweetie, it’s never okay to allow yourself to be abused…and while you may love this person, and care for them, he has a problem. he is hurting you…and that’s not normal.

what if he got carried away and killed you? stabbed you? shot you? I’m sorry, but I feel the need to point out the cold reality of it all…

bottom line…

he is hurting you…abusing you…and you’re letting him. it’s not good for either of you…

as a man he should never hurt you…ever. and if he loved you deeply he would never raise a hand in anger or hate towards you…

he needs to check himself into a hospital…he needs to talk to a counselor and work things out…away from you…for the time being.

if in the future he has shwon that he has changed then you might want to keep talking with him…until then…stay away…don’t let yourself be harmed anymore…

…too bad it doesn’t make her NUMB also.

…they say love makes you blind. Makes you wonder why, doesn’t it?

Get out of that relationship NOW!!!

Well if you don’t want us to tell you the truth, then don’t post.