Prom* more for the ladies but a gents opinion would be nice 2

so me and my boyfriend gave been together for almost 2 years, hes 21 and im 18. so this year is prom for me and im pretty excited for it. thing is that my boyfriend who I’ve asked SEVERAL times to go, wont go with me, I guess hes just not into that whole thing or whatever, but it would really suck to go to prom alone. so a guy that im pretty close friends with wants to go with me and I know that hes someone that I will have a really good time with, but I know that my boyfriend would BUGGG OUTTT iff I said I was gonna go to prom with another guy. like why should I have to sacrifice my prom cause my boyfriend wont go? so what do I do??? do I go alone and may risk my boyfriend dumping me or go with my close frienddd who I will have a good time with and really enjoy my promm?

sincerely, need some advice desperately!

Answer #1

I will defff let you know what I decide, proms in june tho so you got a little time to find out the answer. thanks for your adviceee!!! it helpedd. OTHERS STILL ADD YOUR OPINIONS TOOO TO HELP ME!

Answer #2

If I were you, I woulg go. If he doesn’t understand, maybe there are some more problems with your relationship than you can see. Ever heard of rose colored glasses?

Answer #3

thanks for your adviceee!! yeah he deff has a little bit of a jealousy problem. like when I even try to tallk about prom he buggs outtt “I dont wanna talk about it” like I’ve offered for him to come several times and he said no, but if I go with my friend he most likely might break up with me. but its my prom and I should do what makes me happy and what will be fun for me rightt? he doesnt even want me to go out after prom, all my friends are going to a club in the cityyy, do I go?

Answer #4

Let me know what you decide and what comes of it. I agree, you will only have ONE prom. Enjoy yourself.

Answer #5

yes I knoww exactly what that means, and I agree a little bit. I think I should go too with who I want and do what I want after. you only get one prom, but I dont want him to break up with me. buut its not like he didnt have the opportunity to go with me

Answer #6

If he is not willing to go, he should not say a thing if you go. He had SEVERAL chances. I would think that if he really cared, he would make the sacrafice and take you. What is the problem with you going with a friend? As long as your friend understands where your relatioship stands with him, there should be no problem. Does your b/f have a jealousy problem?

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