Problems with my Best Friend

Hi, all!

My best freind was supposed to sleep over tonight, but I don’t know if I should still let her. Last night me, my boyfreind, her boyfreind and her were over at her boyfreind’s house. I asked her before we got there if she wouldn’t ditch me to hang out with him as much as before (which was about 3/4 the time we were there). I do understand she needs alone time with him, but I am her best freind and I rarley get time to hang out with so I wanted at least an hour to hang out with her, but, her boy freind manipulated her to ditch me, specifically the whole time because she can not think for her self. When they finially arrived from 3 hours of avoiding me I pulled her aside and went to talk to her in a seprete room and asked her why she had to ditch me the whole time and she responded that she wanted to make everyone happy which was not working. I was so upset because all I wanted was for her to hang out with me and it hurt me that she didn’t care enough about me to say no when he told her not to hang out with me. How can I make her understand how much she hurt me and how much I want her to spend sometime with me and not ALL HER FREE TIME with her boyfreind. And, should I still ask her to sleep overtonight, even thought I’m still incredibly angry.

Answer #1

There’s not really any point in holding a grudge so inviting her over while your angry is a bad idea so if you are going to invite her over make sure it is because you want to be with her and have a good time. Whenever a group of people are hanging out, you’re not going to be able to spend every minute with every person so you have to pick the favorite for that meeting. I mean wouldn’t your boyfriends get mad if you were both just hanging out together and they were just sitting there bored? You shouldn’t let this get you down because she didn’t mean to hurt you and I think you’re just being a little too sensitive at the moment.

Answer #2

Well, I think if you want alone time with your best friend, you two should be alone. You can not have her boyfriend and your boyfriend with you and expect her to be with you like you want. Plus, your boyfriend was there too. So it isn’t like she left you alone. I think your friend isn’t in the wrong. I’m sorry if that is upsetting to you but I think you should forgive the poor girl and YES, you should invite her over. You said you want to spend time with her but if your busy holding a grudge about her not spending time with you to not hang out with her, your being ridiculious.

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