What if my mom make me get an abortion?

I know how you feel on this, im 16 and I got pregnant over the summer. I told my mom and she didnt take it well, she yelled at me, told me I was stupid and hit me. she also said that my baby daddy wasnt gonna be there for me and that she wasnt either. well long story short, she ended up talkin me into getting an abortion and I regret it to this day. I know that it will be hard but you’re not the only girl who got pregnant young. so my advice is not to get an abortion cause it gets to you and you have to remember that for the rest of your life. Its not the babys fault, so dont take it out on the baby. So if you set your mind to this I believe you could do it.

I know this stuff happens all the time and unfortunatly there is no easy way out if you don’t want an abortion. putting the baby up for adoption with visitation beleive it or not is the best idea, but I know it will be uber hard to let go of it once it’s actually born. If however you choose to raise the baby, You probably wont be able to continue school, and probably won’t get a good job, if any right now with economy the way it is. As far as telling your parents, everyones parents are different so tell the nicer and more kind one first. in the end they’ll still love you. if not then they weren’t ready for a child themselves. Really wish you good luck!

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heyy, I was reading your question. about being pregnant, at 14. I know what kind of bind your in my sister was the same way. and she’s 13. you have got to think about whats right for the baby. I would simply tell your mom, and explain to her that you dint want this to happen, and that you don’t want an abortion. there’s a lot of family’s out there that cant have children, maybe putting your child up for adoption would be best. then you can focus on your life again, and a family can be happy, and the child’s needs will be given. a baby needs A LOT! trust me I have a 1 year old. and without a job,car,education,family, and a lot of support you probably wont succeed in raising that child right. so I would try adoption for the baby. im not going to like to you its hard giving your child up, but think of it this way its for the best, and you want whats best for the child right??? I would go for adoption. and maybe you could do a visitation so you can see your baby through out the baby’s life.

hope that helps

By law, the only person that can opt into an abortion is the pregnant woman. So, your mother cannot make you get an abortion by law. However, she may try to scare you into it, even if she makes you an appointment, you can go to the appointment and tell the doctor you don’t want an abortion and they cannot perform it on you. You just have to stand up for yourself and stand up to your mother. I agree with paigeify, speak to your counselor at school and they will get you the help you need and quite frankly, it doesn’t matter whether the father wants the child or not. It’s not his decision, you are the one and only person who can make that decision and because of his actions, he will have to step and take responsibility and provide for his child.

Okay, you can trust me on this one. What you need to do is go to a guidance counselor at school, tell them and ask them if they can speak with your parents. Your mom CANNOT make you go into abortion, its your choice to have a child, but when your done, you will not just be taking care of yourself but a newborn baby. Think about it, you can give it to adoption.

im 14 and im pregnant too, your mom will probably just be dissapointed in you but you’ll be fine, ohh& another thing tell the babys daddy that if he doesnt wanna b part of your babys life that ul make him pay loads of child support and that will probably make him want you and the baby

Your mom is eventually gonna find outt. sooner , or l8r. If you dont want an abortion, then give it out or apdotion??

There are a lot of similiar questions like this one, I’d advise you look them up. I’m sorry your in a bind, maybe you should tell a friend first, then an adult. Ay adult whether it be a teacher/friend’s mom/older cousin/conselor :) Hang in there!!

well the best thing you can do is talk to someone you can trust who will understand your situation and both of you go to your mom and let that person talk to her… and see what happens

Your mom cant physically make you get an abortion whenever you go into get one they will take you into the room and ask you if you are being forced into it and if you really want to. Just say no and they wont do it.

Im 18 and 4 weeks pregnant , My Mum has ranted and raged for me to have an abortion and even took me to the abortion clinic to have a scan but my mum was there so I couldnt say I dont want to do it. Im 19 in august and think I could do it what do I do? xx

you should tell your mum, or get help.

tell a counsler at school.. theyll help you