pregnat teen trying to find her way out...

IM NOT DOING AN ABORTION… IM AGAINST THAT 110%… I DONT GIVE A $%^$^% that im only 14. im inlove with my boyfriend !

Yes - it was illegal for him to have sex with you.

I am 22.

I have a five year-old son. Do the math. I was sixteen.

I love him dearly.

I also regret that I had him at such a young age. Even today, I am not mentally stable enough to properly raise a child.

Did you know that your brain doesn’t fully develop until you’re in your mid-20’s. The last part to develop is the part that effects your long-term decisions and your ability to plan ahead.

I realize that it feels like the world to you now, but when you step into that future, you’ll realize that it was a stupid, teen impulse and you’ll regret the decision.

Statistically, children of teen mothers are likely to live below the poverty level for extended amounts of time and no matter how well-off your family is (mine is very well off), the journey will be difficult. You can’t expect your parents to pick up the tab on children for your entire life.

Statistically, only about one in seven teen mothers continue their schooling. Seven in seven will say that they will, but then life happens. They realize that taking care of a baby and going to school is just not easy.

Pay mind to the statistics, realize that if you have half a brain and if you don’t want to fail your child in the most severe way possible, you’ll adopt out. Go to school. Find a career to get hung up on. Get your own house. Then, you should start thinking about children.

It takes a very selfish person to keep a baby that they can’t afford. It takes a very mature and absolutely self-LESS person to give a child a family that will be more able to provide for them.

dont let epople influence your opinion I know tons of young married couples that have a beby and are only 14-17 it works if yo uhonestly care for that person

Do you realize thats really going to Mess up your life I have a friend who’s 16 who got pregnant and it messed her life up But its technically not wrong to have sex with a 17 year old because as long as its not a 4 year difference it does’nt matter I have a friend who was dating a 17 year old.

Well no its not illegal, second have you thought of ALL of your options theirs abortion, adoption, getting married at your age can really ruin your life, niether one of you are ready to get a career and raise a family yet. Just be sure to consider EVERY option before jumping into having a family.

I’ve talked to him about this a lot and he says he wants the baby and me. and I really want him and the baby. I really love him weve been going out with eachother for about 4 months and today I found out im pregnant.and I dont think it would ruen my life at all I babysit a lot and stuff I love kids and so does my boyfriend

Yea but hun what you need to relize is 4 months is not a life time and babysitting is not HAVING a baby. I dont mean to be not nice or anything but you are ONLY 14 and you need to relize these things. If you only want the baby because he does you need to rethink its your body noone else’s and remember you dont need to make these decisiions right away you have about 3 months before abortion goes out the window and I think you can give your baby up for adoption up to 7 months along. Just rememeber to think about everything and remember their are open adoptions so you would get pics and reviews and when the baby was old enough you could see them. If you both decide to keep it then its your decision but Im just trying to let you know everything doesnt have to be decided today.

Ok that’s fine, I was just giving my advice. You dont need to get upset. Like I said if you decide to keep it its your decision. Just trying to give some insight.

Being pregnant, wanting to get away from your parents, fear of losing one another, and being in love are not good reasons for teens to marry. Marrying the first person you fall for is not always a good decision. What does a 14 yr old know about marriage anyway? What you need to understand is that you are STILL a child! Do you know what the statistics on young teen marriages are? VERY LOW!For teens, romantic relationships can begin and get serious very quickly. They think it will last forever, but they rarely do. Many people enjoy being in a relationship, but that doesn’t mean that it’s going to last forever. Teen marriage is not something to be encouraged. No matter how much you love a person, getting married in your teens is never a good idea. When you are a teenager, you do not even know what the world is like! You havent even entered the world on your own two feet yet, and you dont know what else is out there. You havent even lived your lives, and you havent seen what the world has to offer. Teen marriages are the type of marriages that get married for all the wrong reasons. Being pregnant is NOT a good way to start out a marriage. Teens do eventually grow into adults and they will change. Some will grow apart once they are older. Some will learn that they really did not love their partner as much as they thought they did. Some will regret getting married all together. Your arent mature enough to make an adult/ lifetime commitment decision!!!