Pregnant by someone yr parents disapprove of?

Okay say if yr 17, and you get pregnant by someone yr parents don’t approve of. Say if yr parents are racist, and you get pregnant by someone outside of yr race. What could you do? Like since yr under the age of eighteen and still under their custody, you couldn’t go live with the father of the baby could you? And if not, that makes you not want to tell yr parents because you know that they would literally kill you if they found out. So could you have a few policeman around when you told yr parents or something? And if yr parents acted like everything was okay til the police left and everything then tried to hurt you. This isn’t happening to me or anything. I was just thinking about it. And that’s what would happen if I really did ever get pregnant by someone of another race. So I was just curious of what all would happen and stuff.THough by nomeans do I plan on getting pregnant or anything. Just wondering.

Answer #1

ha ha truee(:

Answer #2

…ask… a… lawyer…

Answer #3

oookay. thanksss(:

Answer #4

wow. captainassassin, you could really get emancipated in such terms?

Answer #5

well trust me everone says that their parents would kill them or try to hurt them…but trust me they wont… because it is dealing with a child..of course they will be really disappoited in you and probably consider kicking you out.but they wont they loveee you too muc…and they want wats best for the child…and yes you are old enough to go live with your boyfriend. you don’t need police around you just neecd trust and confidence at least if it did or does happen your older then 1…if your parents sre racist then it dosent matter as long as you love your boyfriend and child it dosent matter if your parents do they don’t have to live with him you do…so don’t pay attetion to themm if they are atrue parents they will undertsand and love the child and boyfrined as muc as you do…well obvi. in a diff. wayy..I hope I was helpfull :p

Answer #6

I would say..NOT a good idea. I’m not gonna automatically assume u.r talking about a black dude, it could be a mexican..or and arab guy. :). UHH..if your parents would hurt you like that [because after all, I can’t say your parents wouldn’t do that juss ciz mine wouldn’t because hey, your parents may be different lmao], and you really did end up gettn pregnant, you need to tell ask your counselor at school for the best way to solve this issue. that’s what they’re there for. I can’t figure out for the life of me why you’re curious about such a DETAILED matter, maybe you’re dating somone outside your race ?? lol. well anyway, that’s all I can do for ya, hope I helped :)

Answer #7

thankss. but if yall met my mom, you’d see that woman is crazyyy. she’s made some pretty harsh threats about that if something like that ever did happen to me. :/ she said that it would be the babys fault because it had another race father. and she wouldnt care if it died or not. which to me, is extremely ignorant. I love everyone for who they are. no matter their race, gender, sexual preference. it doesnt matter. so even if being seventeen, you could still live with the father of the baby? it’s really a scary thought though. —and brittany_armonii, yehh yr right. and me and that guy kind of had unprotected sex. so I mean I was kind of worrying about it and suchh : /

Answer #8

that IS ignorant..wow. I’m glad you didn’t follow your close-minded parents, like I didn’t. that shows that you have a mature mind, and you can think for yourself !! :) but like I mentioned, I don’t know your parents, that’s why I wasn’t quick to say your parents won’t kill you, because everybody is different, and people parent in diff ways. haha. but you’re awesome, take care. :)

oh and btw, yea I figured you really had an issue going on, no one’s juss curious about something like that lol. it’s cute how you asked tho, no sarcasm included. uhh..and you can juss call me Brittany !! :)

Answer #9

Truee(: Thanks for yr advice brittanyy! And you can either learn from yr parents bad parenting skills or choose to follow in that path. And I personally know, that I’m going to try to be a veryy good mother to my children(: you take care as well(:

Answer #10

Well, since your parents ARE racist, subjecting you to a hateful environment, this could be interpreted as putting both you and your baby’s health at risk. You COULD speak to a lawyer about seeking emancipation on such grounds…

Answer #11

But first of all, don’t get pregnant. Use condoms. Get BC pills if you can. Both are available at clinics if you have any in your area.

Good Luck!!

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