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pregnant and confused

im 4 wks pregnant, unsure who the father is, could be 1 of 2 men. i told 1 he is over the moon, not told other as he is back with his ex. how do i tell my mum, it was 1 stupid mistake and dont want to be judged. and hould i tell the other man cuz he lives miles away and it may ruin his life. i love the man that dont no, and if i tell him he will think i try to trap him, im so confused i need advice, i have no 1 to talk to here,

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Answer #1

I thing u will be ok just take care of your self n the baby…there is no turn back now,and talk to your mom about every thing is going on.she is tha only you can trust…sher help you,and tha 2 guys well you cant have 2 at 1 time..your on your own for now n god beless you n tha baby……….

Answer #2

Ok, first of all you need to tell ya mom…worry bout them other dudes later. TEll ur mom as soon as possible..the longer you wait the worse it could get but she’ll understand.

Answer #3

I would get a DNA test with the guy you like after child is born. If it is positive great but if it is negative then you know…

I would also tell both men. Let them both know that it may or may not be theirs. If the other guy is the father but refuses to help you out and if the one you love really loves the child and you, then he can legally adopt it.

How old are you? Your mom should respect you. She might act like she would be mad if you ever got pregnant but I bet when you tell her she will be very kind and compassionate. After all she is now a grandma.

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