Pregnant again

Hey I have not been on here in a long time. My oldest baby is going on 2yrs old…Im going on 19 and im pregnant.. I dont know what to do.. My mother told me that I shouldnt have it because I need to go to college… But Im not the type on person that will kill a baby…He or she didnt ask to com in this world..

Answer #1

College and having children are not the best pairs together, but it can still work.

I do not really agree with killing a unborn baby, though to be honest, I’m not sure what I would do it that situation, but if you want to keep the baby, you should.

But you’ll have the think of all the options like financially at being 19 and who will look after your children. I think you can take your children (when they are old enough) to college with you at some places, because they have a crech/ babysitting area.

Your family members should support you in the option you choose. Good luck!

Answer #2

if youre really not willing to bring up a baby ( NEVER bring up a baby when you dont even want it) consider adoption. theres tons of great people out there who cant have babies of their own.

Answer #3

the need to go to colloge, well is this what you want or is this what your mother wants for you…what is the best for you? your 19 still young your first is old enough for daycare, if you choose to have your second why not take a year off wait till baby is old enough and have her/him in daycare with the other and then go to college

Answer #4

Go to your doctor or clinic and discuss options with them. Talk to them about proper birth control - how to get it and how to use it. Good luck!

Answer #5

I no nothing about being pregnant but your right, you should have it, and if you really need to you can put it up for adotption, or let one of your faimly members take care of it so you can get through college.

Answer #6

Wow, you joined the site over 2 years ago, thanks for coming back.

Well…college can be hard, but if you get very organized & have help from your family, you can do it even with kids.

If it were me, I’d keep the baby…I have two kids myself (7 & 6 now) and they’re amazing. At that age, they play well together, and if you have one, well, they can be a little lonely, as they’ll want somebody their own age to play with.

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