Pregnacy and break up

Hi , im 4 months pregnant my babies father broke up with me because he said I have anger problems but I never realized how bad the were untill a few weeks after we broke up. He broke up with me after we found out I was prego. I miss him and love him sooo much he was just saying a week ago that things were getting better and we should be back together in a lil bite. but then he says he has a new girlfriend and that hurts like hell. but they didnt ask eachother out or anything . I miss him and love him so much I have been working on my anger problems so I could be with him and I don’t know what else to do or say because whatever I say aint working can you help me out please???

Answer #1

I hate to say it ebony16, but the guys just not that great of a guy. You need to focus on the health of that baby over ANYTHING. Boys are a temporary, that baby is a permanent. You’ll always have your son/daughter, but men can come and go (not that they should). Focus on keeping your baby healthy and staying pretty stress free. Then, a few months after, start looking around for a man. Just take your time and keep options open. You dont have to be tied down right away, and you want to make sure he’s a good man before he gets involved with your baby. Just trust your gut instincts, they’ll help a lot. And if he wants to be with someone else, you’re going to have to let him. I know it’s hard, but it’s the truth.

Lemme know how everything turns out. And I hope you have a beautiful, healthy and strong baby :].

God Bless.

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