Do prefer to solve a problem right then and there or put it off?

its occured to me that maybe if we all solved an issue say in a relationship right then and there in the heat of the arguement rather than not, to safe an argument and keep it yourself, “sweep it under the carpet” if you will. we’d have better relationships with not only our significant others but with people in general. What is your opinion on it?

Answer #1

When im mad, let’s say at my boyfriend. It’s better for me just to not talk to him for a couple hours and talk to him after I’ve calmed down a bit. I say things I don’t mean when im mad, so it’s better for me to just put it off for a time when im not so pissed.

Answer #2

i agree if nothing getting fixed by having a small arguement, but most cases for myself I try and do it then when i know what im upset about and i can get out how i feel when i feel it.

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