Is it normal not to be angry post-breakup?

My boyfriend just broke up with me last night. We were only dating for about 2 and a half months but everyday I spent with him I liked him more and more. Then last night he tells me he feels we need to break up because he is still in love with his exgirlfriend. He says that he still really really likes me yet he loves her and said it was unfair for him to do that to me. We then went on to have sex and then he left. Im very upset about this, I’ve spent the whole day crying, yet im not angry at all angry at him for never bringing this up before last night. Is this normal? Should I just move on? What complicates this even more is that he still texted me all day and wants to be bestfriends(since he is bestfriends with one of my really good friends were def going to see and hang out with eachother) What is going on with me. My friends say right now I should hate him and never want to talk to him again yet I dont know what I feel for him.

Answer #1

it’s normal to feel sore after a break-up, but it’ll pass, and you’ll move on. just stay strong and try not to let this bump in the road effect who you are.

Answer #2

The choice is really yours but you have to be completly honest with yourself.

Do you really want to be friends with someone who hurt you the way he did. REAL friends don’t do that to other friends so can you really put it behind you and be friends with him??

The best thing to do would be move on and find someone who would treat you the way you really deserve to be treated. You should never doubt yourself or the way you feel.

always remember…never settle for less.

Answer #3

he had sex with you but he still love his ex? hunnie! don’t believe him when he said you like like you a lot. because obviously he was using you for sex or he is trying to 2 times both. trust me, he doesn’t deserve you.

yes, you should move on.. because there is no point of going back to him since he broke your heart. wells, you can be his friend but think about it, can you move on when he constantly talking to you. so, I said you should not talk to him for awhile until you’re for sure over him then you decide if you still want to be friend with him.

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