Possibly pregnant and scared! Any advice?

Im so scared! Im seventeen and for the past year I have lived with my boyfriend. Things dont work well at home between me and my mother, so this was the best solution. I ran out of birth control and didnt have the money or the means to get more ( I know they can give it for free some places, but I couldnt find any!) and up until very recently everything has been fine,but now I think I am pregnant. I just moved in with my Dad, but I am not allowed to live here if I am pregnant. My boyfriend and I broke up because of the distance, not for lack of interest or anything, and he says that he will be here for me if I am pregnant, but if I am, I have no way of supporting the baby, I will most likely not have a place to stay and have no idea what to do. I cant keep the baby (if there is one) and I cant even begin to consider destroying that life. Any advice is welcome. I do understand that I was not careful and should have been much more aware and safe, thought ahead a little more, but the mistake was made and any advice truly would be wonderful! Thank you!

Answer #1

You need to get a pregnancy test or see a doctor You can get one done for free at a planned parenthood place And then you might want to look into getting a job

Answer #2

well, if you can’t support the baby and don’t have a home why don’t you look into adoption. and I think there is an adoption center that takes the baby to a home until you r ready to have the baby but it is harder to get into that cause my sister tried.

Answer #3

If you are out of highschool, try going to a community college in your area, you can get financial aid and student loans. Also go to the welfare office. They can help you. Also go to a clinic that is anti abortion. The one in my area is called the chico womens center. The have counseling and avenues you can take. I was pregnant all the way through school and had my baby the last of the semester. I am still in school and he is two and a half now and I am close to getting my AS degree. Good Luck to you and your baby.

Answer #4

I tell you this truly. Look up “CareNet” on the internet, get their phone number and call them. They are waiting for “your” call and “will” help you out. Just do not make a final decision until you have called CareNet and allowed them to talk with you, comfort you, and work with you so the 2 of you both can come to an agreeable situation. There are “no” worries, risks, or obligations with “CareNet.” They care for you “AND” your unborn “child.” Hope this helps.

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