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ok...dont take my age into consideration here cus I know how every one likes to think just cus im only 14 I cant make decisions and I shouldnt be worrying about this. ok, this girl..my ex...we plan on getting back together. now right as of recently shes been telling me she loves me and she wants us to get married and have kids etc. etc. now I want this too...but she doesnt want to be in a relationship right now although she wants to she cant because she wants to be completly commited which I guess she cant. So even know she wants all this...she should want to flirt with any one else if she loves me right? at least thats what I think..I mean I love her and I dont want to flirt with any one but her. so...why would she want to flirt with other guys...?!?! does any one understand it...she doesnt even like most of the guys she flirts with...WTF?!?! can some one please tell me why she would do that...
she's probably confused and doesn't know what she wants. that, or she's completely contradicting herself. if she really loves you like you say she does, she wouldn't go around flirting, the only person she would be thinking about is you, that's it.
she could be letting you down in another way or she's just trying to make you jelous. like I said previously, she's probably confused. maybe keeping her options open.
if she's doing that to, maybe trying flirting with other girls and see how well she reacts. if she has a problem with it, then bring it up that she was doing it as well. then just agree that both of you only want each other . hope I helped ^^
Well I know young people have the right to love too but don't take it too far. I mean, is she the same age as you? if she is, I think it's pretty immature of her saying she wants to have kids and get married cause hello, at 14 years old? that would be horrible. So I think you need to rethink if you want to go on with her cause she seems like she doesn't know what she's talking about or wants.
Enjoy your youth, fall in love as many times you want to, but don't do anything stupid.
-- dangerred that was a super immature and stupid comment.
Like I have said in a previous question, you are still a child and so is she (evident from her actions.)
And I'm sorry but, you're not winning anyone's respect by saying, at 14, you want marriage and kids. You don't have the slightest clue what any of that even remotely means, and you can't know. It isn't your fault. Try as you might to seem mature and tell people off, it won't change the fact that you are still a kid.
Stop trying to settle down and enjoy being 14.
Your 14, so trust me when I say, you will not feel the same way in 4 years! In fact, I can bet that she wont even be in your life then either!
She likes you, but wants the attention from everybody. I have the same problem. Its just a matter of communication that can fix this.
Because she's young, immature, and she likes the attention. Age really does become a factor when you think about it.
Doesnt sound like she feels the same way about you!
Agreed with angelfire, as always.
