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Why am I hearing bad things from my boyfriend's friends?
I have been going out with my bf for 5 months and my best friends and his best friend have just told me that he thinks that I love him more than he loves me and I am getting annoying and I’m around him too much. But the things he tells me are the exact opposite (ie: he tells me he loves me more all the time and he invites me over to his house like everyday). I mean it doesn’t make sense. It seems like he just tells me these things so I can be his little sex toy and then he tells all his friends that he doesn’t even love me. I feel so stupid and hurt even though I don’t even know for sure if its true. He is at church camp right now so he can’t call me either. Please help! I have no idea what I should think or do!
Ive been through pretty much what your going through, and ive learned that when your friends and his friends are telling you the same thing…chances are its true. Ive known this guy for years and he tells his gf everything she wants to hear. His actions show differently!! Shes been told that her bf has been cheating on her since theyve been together, and he tells her its not true, and of course she believes her bf since he tells her he “loves her”. Everytime he messes around with girls, and she gets wind of it, he will suck up to her to make her so she thinks he really does love her. Its been like that for 2 yrs with them. Shes just really stupid and naive! You obviously have concerns about your bfs credibility. If you feel like hes telling you everything you wanna hear just so youll keep sleeping with him……then dont sleep with him for awhile! Not until he proves to you that he wants you….and not sex! When he wants to have sex, just tell him that your just not up for it right now. I would do this for a period of time, and see how he acts. If he starts getting upset with you because you keep saying no….then you know hes just in it for 1 thing, and he doesnt truly care about you! (but dont let him know) Do this for a couple of weeks and see if his behavior changes towards you because he isnt getting any! Thats your true test right there~ Good luck hun!!
I think it sounds like you need to talk to him when he gets home. When he’s home, ask him why his best friend and your friends would be telling you that. Ask him about it and see what he says. If all you two do when you’re together is hook up- and that seems like the reason why he invited you over, it’s a problem. It isn’t mature to be telling your girlfriend one thing, and your friends another. Make sure you get a straight answer out of him, and try to do things other than hook up when you’re together if it seems like he’s using you. Only time will tell what’s really happening, but I don’t think his friends and your friends would be telling you this for no reason. Don’t accuse your boyfriend of anything, but be careful.
If you love this boy and enjoy all the time that you spend together than do not deal with that what “friends” talk. Even do not be worry about that you love him more than he loves you. It is almost not possible to love each other exactly the same degree. Usually one of the couple loves always “more”. Even, this can be change by the time; so it is possible later this boy will love you “more”. The only thing you have be careful of is that never let anybody to torture you, I mean emotionally. As far as I undersood your situtation this boy does not want to torture you. So just take the advantage of that you are the “little sex toy” of that boy that you lovem, and you enjoy the sex with him.
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