Please Help me control my kids

here’s a guideline or whatever youd like to call itfor controlling your kids and some reasons why they do things every child has a reason for doing something and honestlly you sound like a great mother! 1.they need sweets 2.give them chores around the house to keep them busy.and whoever does not do their chores does not get a reward 3.they need there father badly! 4.pay(allowance) them according to their age.only if they get their chores done 5.when they wake up early take them to a park to get them worn out so they’ll come home and go to slepp 6.the reason why they disrespect you is because I think they are puposefully aggravating you yes they do love you they just want your attension 7.give the 10 year old authority over the younger ones so they kind of form some type of respect it should work. if you have any questions or comments just put it on my profile bye!

iight im kinda styl a kid miself.im 17 of age.kids wak up early cause they want to watch tv and what nt.just tel dem 2 go and da livn room.if it doesnt bother your husband why r you mad den?mayb you shld go 2 slp early.I do da same thn your kidz do.n mi lil sis and bro.u wld dink dey wld slp late guin 2 slp late.bt naw it makz dem gt up early.

If you can’t get dad to listen and spend more time with them look into the big brother program, where a guy will come and do things with them like take them to the park to play ball,take them to the movies, etc etc.it will not only help them by having a guy to hang out with.it will give you a break also.

Thanks heaps to all of you for your great advice tips, I’ll try everything, it means a lot to me, so once again thank you, I’ll let you all know how things go :-)

take away the stuff they like or play a lot with .

I get my cell phone taken away if I did something “bad” .

that sometimes stop me from doin somethin my mom dont want me to .

tell me if this helps

do you think? I so hope you are right, cause like you said I have done everything else, & hubby gets home & they ask him to play with them & his reply is always the same, that hes too tired & we argue over that cause I can see that they need him & I’ve also noticed that when he has them they listen more???

maybe they are sick of me?

Thank you so much, what you are saying makes perfect sense, I turly appreciate you helping me out, hope you have an awesome day & night & I will chat to my husband again, bless you xx!!

Drown one of them in front of the other 3, and tell them they could be next if they don’t follow the rules, also instead of slapping them try poking them with a needle that will really get their attention, and set them straight. if you must use brute force, slam one of their heads against the wall then pick them up and throw them on their beds, and place a blanket over them.

In the morning if they’re not ready for school on time they stay home, with punishment. Hold their heads under freezing cold water from the bath tub, and then make them kneel on raw rice, and force them to raise their hands up in the air and keep them their, and if they put them down they get burned with a cigarette on their backs.

Your kids will not fuck with you anymore.

They’re not sick of you - I wouldn’t worry about that, since they will always need their mom, but boys need their father, and if he’s too tired to spend time with them, it’s bound to cause problems for them.

Parenting is a very difficult thing to do, and it takes both parents to make it work. Dad can’t be there, but not be there (if you know what I mean). Those boys need him and they are feeling the strain of not having daddy around enough.

I honestly believe that they miss him.