How can I help my girlfriend?

at new years my girlfreind went to a party and the person that gave her a lift home helped her to bed and when she passed out he undressed her and fingered her and stuff. and then for 3 months he was geting her when eva she would leave her house. and he would do horiable things to her. eg shove vegtiables in her, have friends come over and watch him do stuff, make her cook naked, rip necklaces off of her and just lots of horiable things. she hasnt seen im in a long time but it really upsets her and she has bad dreams bout it. and she blames herself becouse she was drunk. but it wasnt her fualt. I wish I could have stoped it. but I live in another state for the time being. she dosent think she can talk to a counsaler about it but I have been told the only way the dreams will stop is if she gets counsaling but she wont. and I want to be going to the counserling with her so she feels betta about going but its $121 for a ticket there and $121 for a ticket home and atm I dont have a job. what can I do! please help

Answer #1

tell her to go to the police because that is sexual assualt and she can get FREE rape counciling… and the bastard will pay for what he did to her which is just plain wrong

hope the dreams stop coming and she moves forward in her live

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