Do I have to have the doctor look at me down there?

The test is really more scary to think about than to have. Most of the doctors I’ve seen have been very gentle and careful. They explain where there hands are at all times so you won’t feel violated.

First, they insert a plastic device. It doesn’t hurt - just can be a bit uncomfortable at first when it’s widened. This opens you up so they can reach your cervix. Then they take a small plastic instrument and gently scrape a few cells off your cervix. Most people don’t feel a whole lot but I find that it tickles and makes my toes curl.

You may have some spotting after this is done because some women have a sensitive cervix. That’s ok.

After this is done and everything is removed, my doctor inserts a few fingers and then pushes on my abdomen to make sure I don’t have any lumps or pains. This is also uncomfortable but not painful. It makes me want to pee.

If you are already sexually active, I really encourage you to go ahead and have this done. It can save your life and it’s really not that bad. A female nurse is usually with you all the time so you can hold her hand or have her talk you through if you need that kind of support too.

Good luck!