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parents found out shes gay what to do plzz help

ok so yesterday my girlfriend parents found out she was gay. they wont let me have any contact with her she lost her phone computer everything. were in a long distant relationship at the moment so its very hard I don’t know what to do. her parents called me sayin its over I cant have any contact they will call the police and say im harrasing them a whole bunch of sh*t.. they said were confused but were not we love eachother its nt just a thing I love her sooo much shes my babygirl mylife my everything.. I don’t know what to do im trying to find a way to get there I don’t know.. she did call me earlier froma strangers phone saying of course its npt over were gonna figure this out and that she loves me but plzz I don’t know what to do I need her..

im not giving up hell no I love her that my life.. im never gonna give up.. im just hoping they dont send her somewhere

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Answer #1

it sounds like her parents are very close minded, possibly religiouse people as well unfortunantly, people like that can be extreemly stubborn so if they think something like being gay is wrong, you cant convince them otherwise it might be worth explaining that being gay doesnt make you two any less human and that you have ther same right to be in love as straight people and that love is love, it doesnt matter what gender you are also that saying your both confused is insauting as you dont badger her saying she made the wrong choice by being straight but I dont think theyll listen if they did call the police I doubt anything would happen, the police cant stop two teens being in love, and all you have to do is explain that they dont like that your both gay which is why all this has happened and theyll probably leave it alone if there still being horriblde people and denying you both the right to love, I would say wait untill your both 18 when your legally free to move out, make your own decisions ect and be together then you might be able to keep up the long distance relationship by e-mail, social networking sites (even if you can only talk during a school break) by letter, or txt hope that helped

Answer #2

I think your girlfriend needs 2 stand up 2 her parents & let them no her true feelings no matter what, so whatever if they think you guys are confused, they have 2 respect her choices & if they can’t they can f*ck off, it may put a strain on her relationship with her parent but with time everything will work out so dont worry & b strong.

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