parents and talking openly about sex

Abortion is not killing an innocent life, stop being judgmental. The girl is 13, it was the right choice for her and you are no one to judge.

Wow - you are that young and have already slept around and gotten an abortion. It sounds to me like you need your mother now more than you even realize. Talk to her - and tell her the truth. It will be hard, but it’s something that you need to do. You obviously need a good sit down talk with someone. Geez.

I think peoplecan judge a lot, but its your life, you understand what youve done, even if you are 13. I think colethky is right, skirt around the subject til your comfortable being straight with your mum, then tell her honestly, she will be hurt , upset and think she has failed you if you had an abortion, but she will get over it once you open up to her and regain her trust

im glad you said that pro choice.

sounds like to me you must get around a lot.

First off, do not tell her that you know all about it, she will think you’re doing it. Ask her questions, tell her that you are learning about stuff in school and see what she says. After you can talk openly with her then tell her everything, she does have a right to know.

Some parents are embarrassed to talk to their kids about sex, I can understand why but I think my kids should be better educated than that. My 4 year old daughter learned where babies come from when she was 2. She would tell anyone who listened that babies would come out of her vagina someday…of course she calls it her baby hole but she does know the proper words. My best friend has been talking to her 11 year old son about sex and blow jobs…I thought I was going to pee my pants laughing when I heard them talking about it. But that’s the kind of mom that I want to be :)